Hell my wife will likely never read this but i still wanted to share what a amazing woman she is.  I have felt like a pup for many years but couldnt talk to her about it but when I got a hood and a tail I figured what the hell.  It made for some rough waters at first.  She has warmed up to ita bit although im sure she still has questions aprehension and fear.  Ive already made a post like this but i was asking for advice and got some good help from the community.  If anyone is in the boat i was in I would gladly offer advice and suggest things and offer suggestions.  I love ya my wifey your the best